Cycles
Life, much like the changing seasons, unfolds in distinct phases, each with its own needs, challenges, and opportunities. As we age, particularly from 50 into our 90s, we experience four distinct stages: the Pre-Go Years, the Go-Go Years, the Slow-Go Years, and ultimately, the No-Go Years. Each phase requires a different approach to how we live, work, and manage our personal and professional lives.
The Pre-Go Years are about preparation—building the foundation for the active years ahead. This is akin to spring: a time of planning, setting goals, and laying the groundwork. The Go-Go Years, much like summer, are characterized by high energy, activity, and engagement. It’s the phase of travel, adventure, and seizing opportunities, both personally and professionally.
As we transition into the Slow-Go Years, resembling autumn, the pace begins to slow. Priorities shift towards maintaining health, managing resources, and enjoying the fruits of earlier labor with more measured activities. Finally, the No-Go Years, our winter, are a time of reflection, care, and reliance on others as mobility and independence diminish.
This cycle isn’t limited to aging; it applies to every aspect of life—whether it's a project, career, relationship, or hobby. Each phase demands different actions, attitudes, and preparations. Recognizing where you are and what that phase requires is crucial for success and satisfaction. Embrace the season you’re in, understand its demands, and prepare for what lies ahead. Life is about adapting to each phase with grace, intention, and awareness.